A few people are actually very difficult to convince whenever they are gloomy. Difficulties impart such a strong sense of disappointment in their hearts that no matter how hard you try you just can’t make them spit it out. Being gloomy , Blaming yourself is not the solution to any problem and Self Pity is a CURSE. It’s like you are depriving yourself of your own rights over you. Nevertheless, it provides you with an excuse for everything wrong that is happening around anywhere, the reason that seemed valid to you and the reason is ” YOU” and only “YOURSELF”.
I wonder if I was provided with such a reason for everything that everybody does on mother Earth, Would I do the same thing ?? Self pity and Blaming myself for ages??
I just thought about a few things that i used to believe and i used to do a few years back.When somebody asked me about my qualities the first answer that i always had was that
“I AM AN OPTIMIST … AND I HAVE THE POTENTIAL TO LOOK AT THE BRIGHTER SIDE OF EACH AND EVERY SITUATION”
A classmate of mine seemed like the most pessimistic person to me.She was always and always worried about something,i dunno what.But whatever it was,it bothered her allot.I kept criticizing her on her moods and never thought about the reason behind it.May be because i was least interested in helping her or because i had no issues in my life at that time.
Now when i look at the way i think about everybody every problem everything i always conclude that may be she may be she was passing through the same phase as i am now.
But my question still remains unanswered.
What is that thing that makes people think this way… What is that thing that make people think that God doesn’t exist … What is that thing that made them think that she was born without any right on herself… What is that thing that makes them think that they dont own it and they don’t deserve it either…
“Remember to look up at the stars and not down at your feet. Try to make sense of what you see and about what makes the universe exist. Be curious. And however difficult life may seem, there is always something you can do, and succeed at. It matters that you don't just give up." - Stephen Hawking (Died March 14th 2018 on Albert Einsteins Birthday & on the same day Galileo died. R.I.P. You Will Be Missed . . . )