“Nothing be, but a good listener”
“A good listener is always a silent flatterer”
“A good listener does not mean that he has nothing to say,a good listener is a good talker with a sore throat”
“Great leaders are always good listeners”
Apart from all of these things they are various pros and cons of being a listener.
• trustworthy and innocent
• may be sympathetic
• and your words are valued
It is an important factor in any relationship any friendship.It brings a certain level of comfort whenever the thing is about sharing your problems and personal issues.Obviously nobody would like to highlight his personal issues in front of a person who doesn’t even give him a chance to talk or to explain.I have always experienced this lackness when sharing my issues.
On the other hand,there is an opposite side to it as well.
People might not understand you completely as you are not loud like others.
When it comes to social behaviors , people may think of you as deaf or dumb and may try to trespass you.
When it comes to normal relations, In any misunderstanding it is quite difficult for a listener to clarify himself as compared to a loud person.